The Connection Game: A Simple Holiday Tradition That Brings People Closer
December always sneaks in with a mix of joy, chaos, and reflection. Between end-of-year deadlines, last-minute shopping, and planning travel, it’s easy to forget that what most of us really crave this time of year is connection.
Whether you’re gathering with friends, family, coworkers, or neighbors, here’s a simple DIY game you can introduce that guarantees laughter, storytelling, and those “I didn’t know that about you!” moments we all love.
The “Memory Match-Up” Game
This isn’t your typical card game. It’s a heart-warming (and often hilarious) way to rediscover people you already know.
How to Play
You’ll need:
Small slips of paper or cardstock
A jar, bowl, or festive box
Pens or markers
Optional: stickers or colored pens for fun categories
Step 1: Gather Memories
Ask everyone to write down one true memory or experience involving themselves — something lighthearted, funny, or unique.
Examples:
“I once got stuck in an elevator for two hours.”
“I met a celebrity at an airport.”
“I burned the turkey… twice.”
Fold each slip and drop it in the jar.
Step 2: Mix and Draw
Take turns pulling a memory from the jar and reading it aloud. Everyone tries to guess who it belongs to.
Step 3: Share the Story
Once the person is revealed, they get a minute to tell the story behind the memory.
It’s the perfect mix of mystery, nostalgia, and belly laughs.
Why It Works
It builds connection.
Everyone gets a turn to share something real, creating stories that outlast the evening.
It’s zero-cost, all-fun.
No equipment, no apps, no awkward silence — just people being people.
It sparks gratitude.
When the noise of the season quiets down, it reminds us that the best gifts aren’t wrapped — they’re shared.
Variations to Try
“Future Memories” Version:
Have each person write something they want to experience in the coming year instead. Then draw them and guess whose goal it is. (A fun New Year’s Eve twist!)
Neighborhood Version:
Host a simple cocoa-and-cookies night and invite neighbors. Keep memories general (no pressure to reveal secrets!) — it’s a great way to break the ice and strengthen your sense of community.
Kids’ Version:
Let them draw pictures of memories instead of writing words — it’s adorable and chaos in the best way possible.
A Reminder for All of Us
Sometimes, building community isn’t about grand gestures or elaborate events.
It’s about laughter around the kitchen table, stories that make us feel seen, and the little moments that remind us why we work so hard the rest of the year.
If you’re a real estate agent reading this — share this game with your clients, your family, or your team. It’s a simple way to create a memory that has nothing to do with business, and everything to do with belonging.
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